From the Rabbi’s Desk

Parashat Re'eh

Rabbi Manes Kogan

Shabat Shalom!

Thank you very much for welcoming us formally this night!

I think that it was a good idea to plan this reception one month after our coming to Roanoke because that gave us time to settle down. And now we can thoroughly enjoy this moment.

I want to make use of this moment to thank formally all the people who have helped us in this first month, which was a somewhat difficult time, and we hope we will continue to count on your help in the future.

Now, if I ask you, "Who is a good Rabbi?", probably I would get as many answers as the number of people who are here. What happens is, because rabbinical work is so personal and so diffuse, it is difficult to define.

I like to joke saying that a Rabbi is a person who has as many bosses as there are members in his congregation (and I mean members, not families).

Regarding this point, someone told me: "Rabbi, it is impossible to please everybody."

So, may I say that for the people I will please, I will be a good Rabbi. And for those I can’t please, will I be a bad one?

Is that what defines a good or a bad Rabbi? Does the fact that I am a person with good manners make me automatically a good Rabbi?

And on the other hand, if I do not please somebody, does it mean that this person cannot judge my work?

Let us imagine a surgeon. This surgeon has very nice manners. He is very polite and always arrives at his dates on time. He smiles at his patients and gives sweets to the kids. He answers the phone in a very nice way, and dedicates a long time to explaining to his patients the procedure of his surgery. What happens is that 9 out of 10 of his patients die after the surgery. I am sure you would not like to put your lives in the hands of such a surgeon.

Now you will tell me, "Rabbi, it is very important for a surgeon to be a good person, but it is not enough. To be a good surgeon, he needs to do his job well."

Dear friends: What is clear regarding a surgeon, is also absolutely clear regarding a Rabbi. To please as many people as possible and to have good manners is very important, more important than for a surgeon, but it is still not enough. And what is more, it is not synonymous with doing his job well.

People tell me that I have good manners, that I am polite, and that it is very nice how I remember the names of almost everybody.

For me it would be wonderful if my congregation judged my work based on these parameters, but, if I let you judge my work only on these parameters, that will be similar to judging a surgeon based on his cordiality.

A Rabbi needs to be judged by his personality but especially by the way his personality is expressed in his specific work. And I believe that my specific work is to lead the members of my congregation to study the Torah and fulfill its commandments.

My work consists also in helping them feel the joy and the pride of being Jewish, to bring them back to their roots, to our tradition, to the color and beauty of our rituals and to the eternal wisdom of our texts.

It is based on these parameters, I think, that I need to be judge at the end of my stay in Roanoke:

How much did the members of my congregation study?

How much have they committed themselves to the commandments of our tradition?

How much do they feel the pride and the joy that it means to be Jewish?

Tomorrow, in our weekly parasha -parashat Ree- we’ll read:

"If there should stand up in your midst a prophet or a dreamer of a dream, and he will produce to you a sign or a wonder, and the sign or the wonder comes about, of which he spoke to you saying, "Let us follow gods of others that you did not know and we shall worship them!" - do not hearken to the words of that prophet or to that dreamer of a dream, for Hashem, your God, is testing you to know whether you love Hashem, your God, with all your heart and with all your soul. Hashem, your God, shall you follow and Him shall you fear; His commandments shall you observe and to His voice shall you hearken; Him shall you serve and to Him shall you cleave" (Deuteronomy 13:2-5)

Maimonides teaches us that "Anyone, even someone who had been acknowledged as a prophet, is automatically shown to be false if he claims to have been sent by God to advocate any form of idolatry" (Rambam, Hiljot Yesodei HaTorah 9:3), no matter how many miracles a prophet may perform.

The Prophet is judged by his message, not by his charisma.

And please, don’t misunderstand me. Charisma and good manners are very important. It will depend on them if the youth and new members will join us. However, it is not enough.

The story tells us about a king who was besieged in his fortress. He needed to send an important message to another king who lived far across the big sea. The king’s servants told him about a person in his kingdom who was rapid like the wind and very intrepid.

The king sent him to the other kingdom, and the man ran and ran. He arrived safely in the presence of the other king, but once he was there, he realized that he forgot to bring with him the important message.

To fulfill properly the mission, it is not enough to run rapidly. We cannot forget the message. And now, that I have explained to you the nature of my mission, allow me to ask God to help me with it, and with God’s help and blessing, I hope to be a good Rabbi for you.

Shabat Shalom!

Bet Israel Synagogue, August 21, 1998

 

Rebbe Nachman of Breslov taught…

All beginnings require that you unlock new doors. The key is giving and doing. Give charity and do kindness.

(Likutei Moharan 11:4)

You are wherever your thoughts are.

Make sure your thoughts are where you want to be.

(Likutei Moharan 1:21)

Is there something you really want or something you wish would happen? Focus every ounce of your concentration on that thing or event. Visualize it in fine detail. If your desire is strong enough and your concentration intense enough, you can make it come true.

(Rabbi Nachman’s Wisdom #62)